Something on your mind? Ask Willie D! I can't believe I messed around and had a baby by a man who already had three baby mamas — he never told me about the third one. I found that bit of information out when we were at our year-old son's school watching him play in a basketball game. As my husband was coaching the team, out of nowhere a server walked up to him with child-support and custody papers. I was so embarrassed.
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An old friend of mine called me up recently and told me about her latest man drama. She was really digging him. As they got to know each other, they eventually came across the subject of children. To her strong dismay, she discovered that he had not one, not two, not even three, but FIVE little ones roaming the planet. That is, until he dropped the biggest bomb since the ones unleashed on Hiroshima and Nagasaki were dropped: not only did he have five kids, but by four different women. Hold up, pause!
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After watching my parents struggle financially and sacrifice for us kids, I am really big on building Black wealth through entrepreneurial and other avenues and I want a life partner as serious about that objective as well. By comparison I have no kids, am in my dream career, am great with money and thus have no debt besides my mortgage — which is an investment. I work damn hard and want a man who can take care of me and any kids we have.
The span of time between their respective ages never seems to really matter, as long as they are older. Usually, her limit tips at the year mark, but sometimes, she will make a concession for 15 or I could never understand what a recent college grad would have in common with someone I considered to be a parental figure.